You can’t always blame it on germs.
A lot of the time, the cause is our own sloppy hygiene.
Or, a bit more scary, we can also THINK ourselves ill.
Sounds weird, but we all know the truth of it.
Know that feeling before an interview when your body goes crazy?
Upset tummy, unexpected shivers, apprehension and dread filling your head.
It’s not germs causing that.
Or more specifically, it’s you stressing yourself out.
Most of the time, it’s a one-off we get over quickly.
You’ve done the dentist, yes the root canal hurt, but now it’s over.
The relief is so strong, you get the munchies. And the heck with your sore mouth, that chicken and chorizo baguette is irresistible.
But stress is not always one-off. And you mess with it at your peril.
A run of misfortune brought down normally fit Dave Dowdeswell with Type 2 diabetes. Grief, bad luck and business failure all at once – something had to give, and it was his body.
It could just as easily have been an ulcer, or cancer.
Imbalance in the body looks for whatever weakness it can find. Stress yourself out about something and there is always a price.
If you’re lucky, it’s momentary, like the nerves before an interview.
If it stays around long-term, you’re going to feel it more. Like there’s a car crash and somebody dear to you dies.
And there’s not a lot of defence against it, except attitude.
Part of the price we pay for the cocooned and sheltered lives we lead.
Oh yes, we’re softies. That’s why stress screws us up so much.
Back in Victorian times, a death in the family was not unusual. Weaker diets, lower hygiene, illness was more inevitable – especially among children. Living with grief was more familiar. So was knowing how to handle it.
Most of us have never known anybody die. We’ve never seen a dead body, particularly of someone we love. Which is why we go to pieces when we do.
But life goes on.
And it will do so whether we stress or not.
So we have to teach ourselves to handle it.
Not to be heartless or uncaring. But to see reality for what it is, and come to terms with it.
Victorians went through denial, anger and acceptance, just like we do.
But they could live with it.
And so must we.
Diabetes, cancer, nervous breakdown – stress doesn’t care which it is. If we don’t get ourselves under control, it will choose for us anyway.
The mind has it
Which is where attitude comes in.
We think things change, and so do circumstances. They’re big, they’re small, dramatic, life-threatening.
Well actually no, they’re just things. Our perspective of them changes according to our attitude.
If you’re upbeat and positive, you can handle them. Beat your chest and throw your toys out of the cot, they will overwhelm and destroy you.
Stress can be a killer, but only if we let it. And we can all change it, just by attitude. (Tweet this)
Sure, there’s Xanax, Valium, Prozac – all mamma’s little helpers when stress hits.
But think about it, why are you stressed?
If you’re honest, most of the time it’s all in the mind, right?
So the only way to rescue yourself is think yourself out of it.
Worth remembering, that. Remembering well.
When the end of the world happens, at least you have a lifeline.